Is a deceased loved one angry or upset after crossing over?

When a loved one crosses over (from this life to Home) and there were special circumstances around the passing, you can wonder if he/she is angry or upset about what happened. Some examples: you weren’t in time to come and say goodbye for the last time, you didn’t say ‘I love you’ before he/she passed, you had a fight and you couldn’t solve it before he/she passed, you had to make decisions for your loved one and you’re afraid he/she doesn’t agree with these decisions (i.e.: to end life support or to move your loved one to a caring place or hospital). All these examples leave emotions and feelings and they keep you stuck in the past. It’s very difficult to move forward in the grieving process.

When people come to me for a reading where they want contact with a deceased loved one, they’re hoping for a positive answer, forgiveness or a confirmation they made the right choice for their loved one. But yes, they sometimes are very scared for the answer too.

Cutout heart in wooden doorLet me explain a bit more how it is after you crossed over. Where you finally are, is a place where everything is perfect. There is Light and Love. Everybody is at peace. If you want to study, you can. If you want to meditate, you can. If you want to meet others, you can. You can also learn more about the people still living on earth, the choices they made and why they made these choices. You are compassionate about them and their choices because you understand it all from where you are. You can forgive them. But… what you need is that the person on earth also forgives you.

If you, on earth, are struggling with feelings, emotions and questions or negative thoughts about how the deceased person feels and thinks about you, you both can’t move forward as much as you want. It’s very important to forgive; yourself and the deceased person. You can definitely ask God and the angels to help you. Imagine a box before you where you send all the feelings, emotions and thoughts to. Ask the angels to take the box from you to the Universe where it all will be transformed in love and light. Tell your deceased loved one (in your mind or out loud) that you forgive him/her and yourself for what happened. Feel the release and the peace now.

Back to the readings. Deceased loved ones only send messages of love to you. They want the best for you and they want you to move on with your life, to enjoy life and to be at peace. They understand your choices from where they are and they want to forgive you, because they know that’s necessary to move on. They are not angry or upset. There’s one exception I had a few times where a deceased loved one gave me feelings as sadness. That was in the case of people on earth being unfair about the heritage. The deceased loved one will try to help and support from the Other Side to handle everything in the right fair way, but it all stays a matter of choice from people living on earth. Everybody has free will and can decide to not listen to what they are guided to do.

One last thing. I had the question a few times about the decision of a funeral for the deceased loved one instead of a cremation. When you know the person who passed away had a wish to be cremated and others decide it had to be a funeral, here’s some good news for you. Your deceased loved one is fine with what’s decided. The body died, the soul moved on and is still alive. They don’t mind what was chosen. They want you to have contact with them, tell them about the things happening in your life (the good things but also your worries and other feelings) and to feel the connection. They are still around you and they are there for you. Just ask them to come to you if you want their help. They’ll be glad to help you, to support and guide you. They just want you to be happy and move on. That makes them happy. It’s that simple actually.

Permission of a deceased loved one

This story is about my aunt who died recently. She had a very strong energy, was dominant, and caused a lot of tears with her behaviour towards her son and daughter. My aunt was the oldest of four children, my mother is the youngest and the only one still alive. What happened?

The day after my mother celebrated her 70th birthday, where my aunt came as a guest which was very special cause she didn’t like to go to events with a lot of people because of the headaches she had, my mom received a phone call that my aunt wasn’t doing well. She hurried to her house and called the ambulance. The following night my aunt died in her sleep. Of course all arrangements had to be taken care of with the funeral company, the church, etc. To receive the people from the funeral company and the church, there had to be created some space in the house. Here’s the issue: on the big farm, which looks fantastic from the outside, all rooms inside are completely full with ‘stuff’. The windows are closed (no ventilation), there’s a lot of dust on top of things because you could hardly walk in the rooms. There was absolutely no space, everything was packed. Everywhere were clothes. They were clean clothes, but they were everywhere. All the doors were always closed and they lived in the small kitchen. You couldn’t find anything. My uncle didn’t know where to find his own clothes. So, on the day my aunt died, there had to be worked hard to clear two rooms to receive guests and to make room for the coffin with my aunt. My mother helped and told me on Skype it was incredible what they found in the rooms and because of the time they could only just put it in another place in the house. But they managed to empty the two rooms and clean them in time. Hard work. I asked my mom about the situation and she told me that my cousins were quite relieved to finally have the chance to clear the house a bit, to remove all the clothes. It was obvious my aunt had been mentally ill and it looked like she had hoarded lots of things like clothes, plastic flowers, flowerpots and other things.

After the funeral my uncle, cousins, my mom and with some help of other cousins in the family, all tried to clear the house. It’s an amazing operation and there have been given more than 45 garbage bags full with clothes to charity. Not only second-hand clothes, but they found heaps of new clothes with the price tags still on it. My aunt bought clothes but never wore them. Also new clothes for my uncle were never worn, because they were hidden in the rooms between other things. During this big operation where besides clothes also furniture, flowerpots, and plastic flowers were being removed, my mom found two envelopes with money and some jewellery that was missing. Imagine to find my uncle’s golden cufflinks in my aunt’s shoe and an envelope with money between the wall and the leg of a cabinet. My mom told me this whole operation was emotional for her because of the ‘mess’ my aunt had left behind and that she was afraid to throw away something important that was missing just because she didn’t know it was there. And there was still some things missing that had to be found.

On 30 October I was meditating and suddenly felt my aunt with me. She had a message but it was quite long and I decided to start ‘automatic writing’ with her so that I could pass on her message to my mom. My aunt gave the message that she appreciates all the help my mom offers her family with clearing the house. Now she’s in heaven, she realises what life she has lived on earth. She can now see how much space she took up, but when she lived on earth, that felt good for her. Now, she sees reality from a different point of view than when she was in the middle of it. She created her own reality on earth. She needed all that control on earth to live and survive. Without control she felt like not having the right to exist. Literally, it felt like she would die when she would let go of control. She was so afraid that space would overwhelm her, that she couldn’t handle that.

She gave the message that everything that was missing, would be found. And she gave permission and approval to throw away everything that her family didn’t want to keep. She likes the idea to give things to charity to make other people happy with it. What she couldn’t do on earth, can be realised now. She realises that her family has been waiting long for this. She was sorry for this. If she was in the position to do it all over again, she would do it differently. She’s continuously with her family with clearing the house, to support them. She has a huge appreciation for the big work that’s being done.

She doesn’t want my mom to feel ashamed of the situation. She passes the message that it was her own responsibility and she takes that responsibility now from where she is. She asks my mom to give the responsibility back to her, the owner of it. It was ‘her’ choice and ‘her’ lesson to live like this and she learned from it. She ends with the wish for everyone to live their lives the way they want it because they are free now.

Are you silent now, like me? I feel my aunt’s presence with me again and I feel emotions. She gave her permission to write this blog and the message it contains. That’s such an honour cause I know that people who passed over to heaven are ‘Love’ and know how they lived on earth. I know they see it differently from where they are after passing over. They don’t attach to their possessions because materialism doesn’t exist in heaven. Materialism is definitely something earthly. I told my mom earlier that she must not be afraid that something valuable would be thrown away because my aunt was there with them, keeping an eye on everything. My aunt’s message confirmed that and brought peace. My mom gave feed-back that she recognised my aunt in the message and that she was really ‘like that’. The clearing of the house is still continuing. My uncle and cousins are still helping and creating a new life. My uncle is starting a new life, with space for himself. I think he’ll discover who he really is, his new true self. And I hope my uncle and cousins will release all fears and drama and can cut all chords (except the pure unconditional love one) with my aunt, forgive each other and feel free to live their lives as authentic people. I have to finish this story with the words: God bless. That’s what I receive as a message, so I’m doing that although I’m normally keeping these type of words for myself.

Share this story with whoever you think can have benefits from it. It’s a very personal story but my message is to confirm that people who passed over are grateful for others on earth who ‘clean’ and help to clear the things they left behind. People in heaven don’t disapprove, but support you on earth, as long as you do it out of love and from your heart.

And one extra detail: my mom is a very organised, neat person who has a super clean house and who can clean up and throw away material things quite well. Definitely not a hoarder! Just so you understand how strange this whole situation in my aunt’s house is for her. I really admire her strength to help my uncle and cousins with this big operation. Love you mom.

Fear of love because you feel vulnerable

Love is something beautiful, but also untouchable. It’s different for everyone. Hard to describe. It’s a feeling. When you can allow it completely, it’s a deep feeling and it’s terrific. It can bring you to a higher level.
But when you are afraid of it, you build a wall around yourself as protection. Even if you want love in your life but you had bad experiences with love, i.e. in your relationship with your parents or during a previous relationship with your partner, you can be afraid to let love come in again
Let’s go in a bit deeper on what part love played during your childhood. How was the relationship between your parents? Was there love? Was it true love? How did the love between your parents feel for you? Did your parents love you? How did their love for you feel? Was their communication at home about love and feelings?

In treatments I get to hear a lot of stories about parents of clients who are together for a long time but without love that you can feel. Parents who take care of each other, out of responsibility. But also parents who experienced so much hurt in families that they have become afraid of love. They don’t want to let love in anymore, because it can hurt so deep. They want to avoid the hurt and pain love can cause. When you, as their child, are a sensitive person, this can bring you into a conflict with yourself; you want true love in your life, in a relationship with a partner, but you were taught by your parents (by feeling, hearing and observing) that love is something dangerous cause it can hurt so much. Recently in a reading I received the message again about a client’s parents that they were both afraid of love cause they felt so vulnerable; love had hurt them so much in the past. They felt so vulnerable that they built a wall around themselves. Love was not going to come in anymore. My very sensitive client told that his parents never talked about feelings or emotions. But he was looking for what love means and really is.

It’s true that love can hurt and can cause a lot of pain. But it can also teach you a lot of new things like beautiful feelings and insights. And it can teach you a lot about yourself too. We all came to this planet Earth to learn new lessons that we chose ourselves. Relationships are an intense way to learn a lot. If you feel vulnerable, you probably have the wall of protection around you. If you think of love and relationship as an opportunity to learn and grow, you can open your heart and experience. Evaluate regularly with yourself if your relationship still feels good for you. If not, talk with your partner about your feelings. Find out if your feelings are triggered by previous experiences and release them. And if after that you still don’t feel good about your relationship, ask yourself: is this still the right relationship for me? Is the love I give and receive in balance? Can I work on that with my partner to fix it or did we already try and didn’t we manage to solve this? It can mean that it’s time to move on, that you’ve learned what you had to learn from this relationship and continue your journey of life. If that’s the case, take your time and make a decision: do you want to stay and accept the situation how it is? Or do you want to move on, take your experiences with you and grow further, maybe with another partner in future?

When you go deeper than this, you’ll come to the layer of love that is loving yourself. How much do you love yourself? Measure it on a scale of 0-100 and your answer is the first number that pops up in your mind. If you don’t love yourself enough yet, it’s hard to give and receive love too. You’re more in a relationship to try to get your ‘needs’ fulfilled by your partner (can be unconscious), than that you can have an equal relationship. Discover what’s holding you back from loving yourself completely and release this cause. You can definitely ask the help of your spirit guides, the angels and God or The Source to achieve this. Let them help you to fill yourself with Divine Love and to be able to feel love. To feel yourself worthy, to deserve love and to protect your boundaries in relationships.

Blockages inside you with a dark colour, like brown or black

Did you know that blockages with a dark colour, like brown or black, mean a serious blockage with low energy? During a session when you are making contact with your feelings, you can get a feeling somewhere in your upper body that feels not pleasant at all. Mostly it’s a feeling in your heart, chest, stomach or tunny. And it can happen that it’s a strong low energy and you don’t even like to start making contact with it. It can cause heavy resistance or fears to connect with it. But to release a blockage, you have to get in contact with it first.

After some convincing and encouraging words, and when you feel safe and brave enough to connect with your blockage, it can be overwhelming first when you connect. Just let these feelings be there, allow them all the attention and space they want and you’ll notice they will lessen. These are feelings or emotions that often are existing inside you for a long time but didn’t get (enough) attention. Maybe you didn’t want to acknowledge them because they were too painful. Or maybe you parked them in a special spot inside yourself because you couldn’t handle them when you got them, because you were a child and didn’t understand these strong feelings. You carried all these feelings with you, sometimes for so many years, but these feelings are not supposed to stay there. They want to be released, but only with the necessary attention. And sometimes they only want to go after you received the message they’re carrying for you.

When you get in contact with your feelings, you can ask for the message and just wait what words pop up in your head as a thought. The message can be confronting but is most of the times something you already know deep inside. With your heart and soul. Some examples: you have to take better care of yourself, you have to love yourself more, or you have to let things go to move on. From there you can start to transform and find out what’s blocking you to actually live the message. And finally you’ll find your dark blockage dissolve completely.

This means you released all related feelings, emotions and thoughts that made you feel stuck in your life. You’ll experience a new space around you, which means your aura has space to expand. You’ll experience more space to breathe and breathe in deeply (to your tummy). You’ll find that peace inside which gives you a feeling of ‘All Is Well’. This is the point from where you can live in the now, the present. You’re not afraid of the past anymore and you can start your future.

What’s keeping you from reaching your goals?

Do you have a desire for a change in your life? Do you want to reach that desire? Does it feel possible to achieve? How committed are you to reach your goal? If you feel committed, what’s holding you back to go for it then?

If you’re fully committed to change something in your life, you go for it and you’ll achieve your desired change. You’ll go through every obstacle on your journey, your path, and you’ll reach what you wanted. But what’s happening when you don’t achieve your goal? Is it because you aren’t fully committed? Do you experience doubts and fears? And do you know where these doubts and fears come from?

When you want to change, you can experience fear. This is your ego. Your ego doesn’t want changes. It knows your past and how you are now. What it knows from past experiences, feels familiar and is ‘safe’ for your ego. Every change is something new and is ‘dangerous’! You’re taking risks and risks can cause failure, disappointment, rejection or loss. For your ego a change feels like a death threat. When your ego feels danger, its’ trying to stop you from making that change. You’re going to have all thoughts why the change is not going to work for you, like:

  • It’s not the right time now, I wait until […].
  • It’s too expensive for me, I can’t afford this.
  • It’s going to cost me too much energy, I’ll become too tired.
  • It’s going to be too big for me, I can’t handle that.
  • Why do I even think I could achieve that? I’m not worth it. It’s for other people, not me.
  • What will other people think of that? They’re not going to like me!
  • This is a too high risk, I don’t do it. I’ll lose everything.

Besides doubts and fears your ego can also give you feelings of confusion and hesitation. All these feelings together can make you so uncomfortable and stressed that you can decide it’s too difficult to make the change and you give up. You’re leaving the chance for a change in your life. Your ego starts to relax again; you’re staying in your familiar situation and everything feels ‘safe’ again.

What happened here? You gave all power to your ego and you know you won’t reach your goal. Everything stays the same. That was not what you wanted. What you wanted, was that change in your life. So let’s go back there. What do you want to achieve? Take a moment for yourself and close your eyes. See the achieved change before you and feel how fantastic this feels. Spread this feeling through all your cells in your body. Ask yourself: can I achieve this? Feel in your heart area. Your soul will give you the answer via your heart. Trust the first answer or feeling that comes to you. If the answer is yes, you don’t give the power to your ego anymore. Stay with the ‘yes’ answer and take action steps now. Don’t let the fears your ego is creating on your path, hold you back from your goal. Release the fears and start taking the necessary steps. Don’t let anything or anybody keep you from achieving your desires. You’re worth every change you desire and when your soul ‘says’ you can achieve it, you can! DOING is the answer now.

Do you practise what you preach?

Are you someone who likes to give others advices on subjects as work, relationships, raising issues, achieving fulfilment or happiness in life? How aware are you actually of practising in your own life what you preach to others?

Often I notice that people are really good in giving advices but they don’t seem to implement them in their own lives. What they preach is like a mirror for themselves, but they don’t see that. These people are not aware yet, or this is their ‘blind spot’ to work on. They don’t want to see it, ignore this issue for themselves. The reason can be: fear to change (denial of this opportunity to grow), perfectionism (I already know everything and do everything perfect, I don’t make mistakes).

It’s the same with people who promise to do something for you but never keep that promise. The people who always say ‘yes’ when you need some help or when you ask their help. The people who can’t say ‘no’ to others, and probably not to themselves either. They are definitely not aware of disappointing others with their false promises and they don’t change it when you confront them with their behaviour. Reason: fear of rejection, fear that others don’t like them anymore when they say ‘no’.

Last week I was reading in a book of Eckhart Tolle and he wrote that under all fears is one big fear: fear of death. Your ego constantly lives with a fear of dying and acts out of that fear. I started to think about that. But it’s true; what happens when someone doesn’t like you anymore? That doesn’t satisfy your ego. What happens if you are not perfect? It doesn’t please your ego. What if you would take responsibility and change your behaviour? That’s unknown and scary for your ego because it’s only based on past experiences and doesn’t want anything new. Your ego doesn’t want you to take responsibility for yourself and your behaviour because then it loses its power. But that’s exactly what YOU want! You want your power back. You don’t want your ego to decide what happens in your life, do you? You can take your own power in your own hands by deciding right now that YOU want to be in charge of YOU. Yes, right now. Say it out loud: I am in charge now! Feel the difference. You are in the Now and from here on you can change. And now face what fears you have and take actions to release them. It will give a huge change in your life but I promise you it will become a lot nicer for you. And you know what? How realistic is it to think you’re gonna die if you change your life and take responsibility for your behaviour and actions? You will be alive then. If you keep on releasing all your fears, you’ll come to experiencing happiness and joy in life. And if you want help with releasing all your fears and changing your life positively, call or email me for an appointment. I’d love to help you on your journey.

Decluttering

You’ve probably heard before about Decluttering. In case you haven’t, decluttering is:

  • to remove mess or clutter from (a place);
  • to organise and prioritise (one’s commitments, material possessions, etc.): Declutter your calendar and spend more time with your family.

This all means you can declutter your life by simplify or get rid of mess, disorder, complications, etc. Decluttering will give you new space (in your life, in your house, in your mind) which also is new space to receive new insight and new creative ideas. It can even take heaviness away from you and your life, which will create space for happiness and joy.

What can you do to declutter? Here are some examples:

  • clean up your house/garage/shed/garden and sort out old toys, clothes and other things you don’t need anymore (or didn’t use for a year): give things away to charity, to someone you know who can use it or sell it;
  • sort photos and start glueing them in in a photo album;
  • delete old files, emails, contacts and photos you don’t want, need or use anymore on your computer and mobile phone;
  • throw away old paperwork like administration that’s not necessary to keep any longer;
  • cancel appointments or commitments you don’t feel good about;
  • create one hour (or more) every day in your schedule as ‘me-time’;
  • create one hour (or more) every day for your child(ren) and/or partner as quality time together;
  • doing your administration and filing everything;
  • make a ‘to-do-list’ and work every day on this list to cross out at least one thing.

Focus on your feelings when you are sorting out and throwing away things and feel the new space it brings in your life. If you give away to charity or someone who can use your things, feel how this can open your heart and give you a warmth inside. And if you sell things, feel how good it is to create new money for yourself. All the decluttering helps to get things flowing again that were stagnated. You’re creating movement in your life and that’s what life’s about: going forward by letting go of the old and creating a way for the new to come in. This affirmation can help you with decluttering: “I detach with love from the old and I invite the new in.”

Because spring is on its way and the weather this winter is so beautiful, in our house it felt like a pre spring cleaning up the last days. We brought clothes to a charity foundation, we sold some items, we gave away old push bikes that our daughters didn’t use anymore and we sorted out old administration. I could feel the move and it created new space for us. It feels really good to declutter!

Gratitude

When you want to create a life of happiness, joy, abundance and prosperity, wellness and good health, the best way is to start with ‘intentions to create your desires’ and to speed the process of your manifestations is to be grateful/showing your gratitude. This works fast because while showing gratitude, you open your heart and connect to The Source. With showing gratitude you make the circle round from The Source sending you gifts, you sending The Source appreciation of what you receive, The Source sending you more gifts and you allowing yourself to receive more gifts. You are creating miracles for yourself! Being grateful for everything in your life also helps you to change from ‘negative’ thinking into ‘positive’ thinking. It helps you to look with a different view to the world; from seeing the things you don’t like into seeing the things you like and things you want to see. For example: do you only see wars in the world, financial crisis, job losses, etc.? But do you want to change this into creating abundance and loving relationships in your life? Start to focus on what you want to see, start to focus on love and abundance. Look for the beauty of nature (the colour of the sea water, the songs of the birds and how beautiful birds are), look at the things of your house you like (the safety because you have a house to live in, the space in your house and garden, your bed which gives you a good night sleep, your gas heater which gives you warmth in winter), look at your car which brings you wherever you want to go, look at the money you spend on things like sports or activities for your kids, buying new clothes but also for paying your groceries (and the healthy food you choose for your body), see the health of your body which helps you to do your work or study and see the nice relationships you have with your friends and the love that brings you. With your intention to see the beautiful things in life and showing your gratitude to The Source about what you see, you are making a beautiful world for yourself and others. When you show your gratitude, you will start attracting, feeling and radiating abundance and prosperity, love, joy and happiness.

Start by writing a list of what you are grateful for in your life. If it’s hard to think of something, start by what makes you happy in life. What gives you energy in life? That’s something to be grateful for. Every time you think of another thing to be grateful for, add it to your list. And read your list out loud every day. “I am grateful for…”.

I am grateful for: that I can feel love in my heart, the love with my husband and children, that our children are doing great at school, that I know my life purpose and am living that, the help of angels, spirit guides, ascended masters, deceased loved ones and The Source, the miracles happening in my life, meditations, people in my life that bring me love and insights and accept me how I am, the joy and happiness in my life, the cute cat in our neighbourhood that visits our garden and wants to be patted, our car that brings us everywhere, the sun shining, the birds, butterflies and dragonflies, trees and flowers in our garden, the white feathers I find, the books I read that help me develop myself, and so forth.

Positive thinking is so important!

Are you a positive thinker? Or are you aware of some negative thoughts in your life? I can’t mention enough how important it is to think positive. It makes your life easier, more flowing, and you feel happier and relaxter. But how do you transform your own thoughts?

  1. Start with the intention to become aware of your thoughts. Every time you think something, see for yourself if it was a positive or negative thought. Writing down your thoughts during a day or several days can help you. Write a P for positive thought and a N for negative thought before every thought. Count them at the end of the day and just notice how many positive and how many negative thoughts you had. Are you amazed by how many negative thoughts you think of during a day? Also feel the difference between a negative thoughts (heavy/tight feeling) and a positive thought (calmness/opens your heart/gives a smile on your face).
  2. In this awareness process you can now say to yourself with every negative thought: “stop, go away” and transform it into a positive thought. An example: when you are running late in your morning routine and you think “I’m always too late, I will never make it in time for work.” Say: “Stop, go away.” Then you transform the thought into a positive one: “Every day I have enough time to prepare myself and arrive at work in time.”
  3. Ask God and the angels for help, for example: “Dear God and the angels, please help me to only think positive and guide my thoughts in the direction of a smooth transition.”
  4. Visualise yourself in a positive person, only thinking positive thoughts, how you attract only positive people and how good this feels. See yourself smiling every day. See you having a bright, light energy which you also radiate to others.
  5. Reward yourself with something you like. And of course thank God and the angels for their help. Be proud of yourself and feel gratitude about this transformation process and how good you feel now.

In a meditation you can also add to this whole process that you send all negative thoughts from the past until now, away to the Universe for transformation. Send all energy that belongs to those negative thoughts with them. Then open yourself to receive only positive thoughts and guidance to think only positive.

Here are some positive affirmations to help you:

  • I have let go of all negative thoughts.
  • I only think positive.
  • I feel good to think positive.
  • My positive thoughts manifest directly.
  • Today, I am a magnet for positivity.
  • Thinking positive makes me happy.
  • My thoughts come from the loving space of my heart.

What relationship with money do you have?

What kind of relationship with money do you have? Is money your friend or your enemy? Who are you without money? You know, money is just energy and with your thoughts you can make it positive or negative energy for you. There is enough money for everyone, there is abundance, but the trick is to have the right thoughts about money and to create this flow of abundance for yourself. How does it work?

Sit down for a moment and think about having a bank account balance that is unlimited. How does this feel? Safe, secure, free or happy or all these feelings together? Where do you feel these feelings in your body? This good feeling is what you want to have the whole day, every minute, every hour of your life. Because when you can feel this constantly, you don’t live in fear anymore. You’re open to attract abundance. You just know that there’s enough and the universe will always provide for you what you want. Ask for help from angels or archangels and your spirit guides, because they love to help you. Be specific what you need. And open your arms and heart to receive abundance. Be grateful when you receive.

But although you try to create the flow like this and ask for help, money is still not flowing in abundance to you? Maybe you have a blockage you’re not aware of, a blind spot: a guilt feeling, anger, or fears (focussing on the lack of money) because of how you are raised or about what happened with money in your life, or a belief that you don’t deserve abundance or to be rich (are you worthy?), or that being rich isn’t spiritual? I can help you releasing these feelings/emotions and beliefs. After releasing all this, I can help you building up a new relationship with money. A positive relationship where you completely trust the universe to provide you with what you need and what you deserve because it’s your birthright.

Here’s a Deliberate Creation Exercise for you. Write down for yourself what you really want. Then write down the reasons you want this and after that, the reasons you believe you will have this. Read this every day and feel what it does to you. It works like an affirmation and you’re creating what you want.
Some positive affirmations that can help: “I have enough. I am enough. I have all I need and more.”
And here’s a ‘Thank you of gratitude’: Dear God and the angels, Thank you for all of the support, supply, abundance, and money that you bring to me. I am grateful for these riches, which I use in Divine ways to bring blessings to the earth.

If you want to start right away with releasing your limitations about money and attracting abundance, call me or email me to make an appointment for an EFT Tapping session.