You might have noticed recently that you feel stuck, lost, or are not happy with the work you do, the location where you live or who is in your friends’ group anymore. It’s your soul telling you it’s time to connect with your heart and listen to what you need to change in your life.
Many of my clients feel an inner push of their soul to take a new direction in life at the moment.
It can be scary to let go of your current job, house, friends and life and the familiarity of it. The good news is that you’ll be happier and more at peace when you act upon what your soul is guiding you to do. It’ll make you more connected with who you are, to be more authentic, stronger, more fulfilled, and more in your power and standing up for what you want.
I see a lot of women taking their power back in their hands and giving themselves permission to be an empowered woman deserving the best.
When you make the choice to take a new direction, your ego will throw in fear thoughts about that you can fail or can be hurt. It is trying to protect you based on the past experiences. What you can tell your mind & ego is that you are going to make the change anyway and you want their help to make it successful and a positive experience. It’ll change your thoughts into helpful ones and make you feel calmer inside.
If you are unsure about several options to choose from, you can use what I call the ‘chair method’:
- For every option you place a chair before you.
- Decide which chair represents which option.
- Go and sit consciously in every chair feeling what this option does with you. You are sitting in the energy of the option so your ego can’t interfere.
- Compare the feelings of each option (chair) and you’ll know which option is the best choice for you. The best choice often stands out by feelings of peace inside or super excitement. Feelings of anxiety and stress are usually the options that are not the right ones to choose right now.
If you have no idea about any direction, it is best to meditate on this, to breathe deeply in and out to your lower tummy, to connect with your heart, to ask Source/God/Creator and your heart and soul to communicate with you and guide you to what you’re supposed to change in your life to serve your highest good and ascension.
Write the information you receive on a piece of paper and create a list with what you believe is important. Some questions as an example to think about for a new job wish list:
- What type of colleagues do you want? Supportive, appreciative, cooperative, like-minded?
- Do you want to be self-employed or having a manager above you? In case of a manager, what type of manager do you want? Controlling, supportive, who you can learn a lot from, appreciative, who can delegate easily? What is important for you to be self-employed? Financially independent, choosing your own working hours and days, having the right balance between work and quality time with your family?
- Location: being in an office or in nature or a combination of them? What maximum distance from where you live?
- What tasks do you love, what amount of responsibility feels good for you, do you want to create new things?
- What is it that makes you jump out of bed in the morning excited to start your day? What motivates you?
- What hobbies do you have? It doesn’t matter if they are absolutely not matching with a job in your mind. Let the universe create your dream job in the best possible way.
Important is to think in possibilities instead of limitations. In my Reiki courses I teach about manifestation and an example in that is: When you want a new house, don’t go into thoughts like ‘with my current income I can only afford this maximum amount so it must be such and such a house’. Instead look for pictures of houses you like, write down on a piece of paper what you want in the house and what type of environment and ask the universe to guide you to this house. The result might be that a miracle happens and you can afford a bigger house because you get a new job or a promotion!
See yourself living a life where you are happy, satisfied, fulfilled, where you experience joy, love, laughter, where you are in balance with everything you do, where your creativity flows and where you are healthy and feel good. Feel in your body how this all feels and where it is the strongest. Expand this feeling as far as you can (expand it to all cells, to your aura, your house, your neighbourhood, the city where you live, the state, the whole country, the world, etc.). Do this daily and you’re manifesting the life you want.
Be prepared to receive with your heart wide open. It’s a new year and new opportunities are there for you to grow and to be more and more your authentic self. Be YOU fully and enjoy the journey. Do you feel you need some assistance on your journey to get more clarity, to make choices and to let go of energy that doesn’t serve you any longer? I’m here for you to assist in the process with all my expertise and healing ways. Let’s connect and discuss your personal situation by sending me an email or ringing me. I want for you to be fully in your power living the life that makes you happy.
