Often people ask me how they can recognise a sign of a deceased loved one. Here’s a list of examples of signs you can receive from your deceased loved ones:
- they can play music on the radio
- ‘their song’ will play everywhere you go
- they can call you on your phone (you’ll see their name on your phone display)
- they can send you a text message on your mobile phone
- they appear in your dreams (= visiting you)
- you smell the perfume they used to wear or the cigar they used to smoke
- you see orbs of light appear in photo’s you take
- they make toys run without batteries (to say they’re around your kids)
- they communicate through kids (kids are often seeing deceased persons)
- they send birds to you (= symbol of freedom, sign of life and expanded consciousness)
- they flicker the lights in your house
- when you switch on the lights in your house, a light breaks down
- they play with electronic equipment in the way of getting temporary technical trouble (with your TV or the radio)
- they can hide your keys and make you find them in time again (= their way of joking around with you)
Deceased loved ones want to share in your good times, so talk to them, remember the good times you had together, eat their favourite food, do things you loved to do together or do these things with your kids or family now. Deceased loved ones are fantastic where they are now and they are safe. They watch over you and your family. They don’t want you to suffer for the rest of your life. They want you to be happy and move forward. They are always around you and they want to be acknowledged by you. So if you have a feeling that your deceased loved one is making contact with you, say something like “I know it’s you, I can feel you”, and you can ask for more signs that they are around you and supporting you. You can also ask their help for situations in your life. They will always help you. Make every day count, creating magic moments and stories to share with your loved ones.
Do you know people who only speak negative about others? Who compare themselves to others in a way that others seem less than themselves? Who complain about everything in life? People who seem to have lost the connection with Love and Light and who don’t experience joy and happiness in life anymore?
Negativity is the lowest energy. It is dark and cold. And it’s caused by fear. Think about something you’re afraid of and feel for a few seconds how that feels in your body. It can give you a feeling of your tummy being pulled inwards, it can make you nausea and it can make you feel like a very small being. Also you can experience the darkness around you (in your aura). It’s absolutely not a pleasant feeling.
If you surround yourself with people who are constantly negative, they’ll pull you down in your energy also (and: you allow them to do that). It’s all about your Choice. Do you want to connect with negativity? Or do you want to connect with only positivity? If you decide you only want to connect and surround yourself with positive people, I can only encourage you to take action and ask the angels to send you new people on your path who are positive and happy and who want to enjoy life. People who are already ‘Aware’ like you and who are grateful for challenges in their life to make that personal growth and move forward too! And even though you may have the belief that those people aren’t around for you or you can’t find them, I can tell from experiences with lots of clients that they are there for you. Plenty! And they love to connect with you too! Just open yourself fully to become a magnet for people who are also in the Light.
How do you feel that someone is in the Light? First of all, trust your intuition, because those people will feel good to you. You can feel pulled towards their energy to have a chat with them or to visit them or to do things together. You’ll find out that you can talk easily together about lots of subjects. And after a visit, you will find yourself feeling energetic, happy and loving. And the other will feel the same. That’s why you will want to meet again.
Here are some positive affirmations that might help you connecting with people who are positive, ‘Aware’ and in the Light:
- I am a magnificent Divine Being.
- Today, I am a magnet for positive and happy people.
- I already see myself surrounded by people who are positive and happy.
- I honour the Light.
- I am superior to negative thoughts and low actions.
- Today, I abandon my old habits and take up new, more positive ones.
Everybody has a feeling of Anxiety in life sometimes. Think about doing an exam, visiting a doctor or dentist, giving a presentation or speech, starting your own business, say ‘no’ to your boss, having a deadline at work, receiving bills, having debts, etc. You can worry about those things and feel anxious. But it can also get worse; that you worry about lots of things, an excessive worry which starts to control your behavior. Do you recognise these symptoms: your heartbeat exhilarates, your breathing exhilarates and becomes a short high breathing in your chest, or your hand palms become sweaty? Or maybe you get a panic attack which often goes hand in hand with the thought of feeling like you’re dying of a heart attack (and what about the fear of getting a panic attack?). Anxiety robs you from enjoying life. Your body is constantly reacting as if in danger. It becomes a circle. Treatment, for example Tapping (EFT or EMDR), can break this circle.
Anxiety contains three parts:
- physical (feelings);
- mental (the ‘crazy thought’ like ‘what if….’ or ‘I have to have this belief…’);
- behavioral (avoidance).
If you treat Anxiety, the first goal is to break the circle, which often can be achieved in one session. But you’re not finished then. You will drop back into old behavior afterwards and that’s why you have to continue treatment until you can manage to stay in that ‘feeling good & calm’-feeling. That’s when you can take the control of your life back in your own hands again. You have to be persistent with treatment to overcome anxiety. And of course you can do Tapping at home yourself also to help your transformation. Tapping a few times a day givis the best results.
How awesome will it be when you feel calm in all those previous scary events (visiting a doctor, giving a presentation, say ‘no’ to your boss, etc.)? When you just feel confident and in your power? When you manage to stay calm the whole event, or even day? I already see your self-esteem becoming bigger and bigger…
I can help you with breaking the circle of Anxiety. I can help you release the feelings of Anxiety, I can find with you the ‘crazy thoughts’ that are blocking you and we can change your avoidance behavior into small steps to what you really want from life. Every time you will do something you earlier didn’t because of the Anxiety, you increase your self-confidence and this makes that you can take the control of your life back into your own hands again!