When you’re believing you’re not safe, you try to control things in life to keep you safe. Not feeling safe is often an effect of a traumatic experience, but did you know you can go a bit deeper about what the not being safe specifically is about?
Here’s an example of a client of mine who believed she was safe (in general), and at the same time believed she was not financially safe. Imagine what the impact is of that not being financially safe. She tried to control everything around finances. She held on to money, was always living in fear of spending money, she had worries about paying bills and costs of living, and she experienced struggles with money.
This is where it started
We found out where this belief of not being financially safe started. It went back to the decision of her partner to end the relationship. While talking about how that had felt for her back then, we found another limiting belief connected to this decision of a breakup: her partner was the provider for her and her 3 children and she was going to lose that provider, so she wouldn’t be financially safe anymore. She tried to control her finances after the breakup but couldn’t get on top of it.
I asked her where the belief came from that a male partner is the provider in a romantic relationship. That was an interesting question, because she realised that she hadn’t created that belief consciously. It was just there. We found it was a role model, a pattern, of the man needs to be the provider and the woman raises the children and organises the household. It went back 993 generations on mother’s side of the family and 1004 generations on father’s side of the family. This had been passed on for so many generations and was now blocking her financial abundance.
Healing and transformation
I’ve removed these beliefs for my client, her children (to free them from this too) and all generations back on both sides of the family to where it started. This is healing for a whole bloodline and liberates many souls.
After this healing, my client has a new truth & reality that she is financially safe. The financial stress has transformed into trust, faith and an inner peace about finances. She can visualise her desired life with the money to live this life and pay for everything in time. She can sleep again at night without worries or concerns, because she feels financially safe. This inner peace about finances results in her kids being more relaxed too, because their mum is not stressed or agitated any longer. When you radiate peace, your vibration is higher, your kids respond to that positively and the energy is better flowing.
Do you recognise the above situation of not experiencing to be financially safe and do you want to discover what’s causing that and how to transform that for good? Contact me to discuss your personal situation and how we can work together to achieve this.
