My client had missed out on love, affection, support, her needs being acknowledged and met, and emotional support in life from her mum. She had the experience she had to figure out everything herself, no one had her back, her mum didn’t stand up for her – not even when professionals laughed at my client for something she couldn’t help and resulted in my client feeling embarrassesd and ashamed -, and she could only rely on herself because of this.
In a forgiveness process on soul level my client asked her mum to apologise to her. She experienced that her mum had a huge resistance of admitting she had made mistakes in raising her child.
I advised my client to tell her mum it’s human to make mistakes and it’s okay. We learn from our mistakes, we can’t change what has happened, but we have an opportunity to change the present so the future will be better for the relationship. If we heal the past, we won’t be triggered anymore and we can have a relationship of unconditional love.
Her mum softened a bit.
Next I advised my client to start encouraging her mum to acknowledge her mistakes first. Her mum did.
Subsequently my client encouraged her mum to admit that she had made mistakes. Her mum was still hesitant. My client encouraged her mum to repeat after her: “I….. have…… made……. mistakes…….”
It took a long time to get these 4 words coming from her mum. She asked her mum to repeat these words till she could say them fluently with a neutral feeling. With the 4th time this was achieved.
Her mum felt relieved and so much lighter. It was a breakthrough for their ancestral line to then come to forgiveness of each other for what had happened in the past and to set each other free.
My client asked her mum to send love from her heart to her heart. It had always felt as cold love. Now it was a red unconditional love energy flowing from her mum’s heart through the heart of all inner children (younger versions) of my client. With her younger version who became a mum herself, she noticed more healing occurred because of this love energy. Finally it reached my client in the present. She felt her mum’s love and filled herself up with it.
My client thanked her mum for the healing work and her willingness to help her heal and with that the session finished.
When you haven’t received the love of your mum, this causes issues with self-love. How can you love yourself when you felt unloved by your mum?
Take a moment to tune in with yourself and ask youself if you still have a need inside of receiving love from your mum. It doesn’t matter if your mum is still alive or passed away. You can still visualise her and ask her what you still feel you’d like to receive from her to heal fully. Share in a comment what you discovered you’d still want to receive from your mum.
